Developing employees – A 6-Part Structure for Giving Clear and Actionable Feedback

Hello again readers,

Most of us had experience a constructive feedback.

On office, business, or even in the street.

Yes, that’s good.

Meaning, everyone loved you most.

If not,They just ignore you.

Just like on the street.

Most of the people would not say hello to somebody who not know each others.

They would think, why should I care of?

Why he become nice to me? Is it for something?

Or could he would take away my bag if I don’t realize?

Yes, that’s true.

But not all.

You can see some peoples help you at.

When you fall in accident on street, everybody surround you help you up again.

Or simple things, ask a direction and place in new place, everybody would give you a support.

That’s show how care they are, the different is level of care, but show in same way – feedback.

Okay, lets take some example.

Husband.

There are a family have a 1 children with age 3 years.

He always see his father angry for every little things at home.

E.g. not find a food he wants on dinner at home.

Or children always asking him when he work at home.

Or angry if the TV program is bad.

Oh, this husband always smoke at home, in front of this kid.

Just a little things and make this kid not comfort.

He ask her mother why.

Even wife explain why, still, this kid not happy.

Time goes by and this kid become age 6 years.

Of course, he become more aware and always compare with friend’s family.

Wife realize this feedback and don’t want her kid grow up with bad situation.

Especially, she just pregnant and come into 4 months.

She talk to her husband to change and become more friendly to kid.

Husband and wife agree with this.

First, they come to a consultant to discuss.

Then consultant ask them to create a plan for 1 year.

First, they need to identify using 5W1H.

What’s problem. Yes, husband’s habit.

Why the need change. To make their children grow with good habit.

Who is responsible. All family member.

Where to change. At home.

When to change. Now, with 1 year period of transition.

How to change. Little by little.

The husband need to identify the trigger of his anger, change his smoke habit using candy or others, etc.

Okay, I don’t talk for detail.

You can mention a huge way.

But, my point is a progress and teamwork at family.

They united become one team.

A feedback turn into action.

It’s not husband task, but all.

Of course, husband is a role.

But, wife give a support.

And children give a progress feedback.

This feed back always discuss every week.

Every month, they go for a vacation outside town, to discuss with family member.

Also, make a charity to everybody.

Times goes by and after one year, with 1 new family, beautiful baby, this family become more close each other.

Managing change and team work is a one group of action.

Of course, for a company, it’s similar.

You can read another article from another author, as follow.

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Robert was the head of an East Coast insurance company. His greatest asset was his large, extroverted personality. He was the classic glad-handing, backslapping, high-energy salesman. His problem was a familiar one, too: a great salesman – even one with charisma — doesn’t necessarily make a great leader.

After receiving some 360-degree feedback, we met to discuss the data. He’d received low scores on providing clear goals and direction, indicating a chaotic management style. His challenge, as I saw it, was twofold: he had to change himself and his environment simultaneously — which meant aligning his team’s behavior with his own.

In my years of executive coaching and research about behavioral change, I have learned one key lesson, which has near-universal applicability: We do not get better without structure. Structure is a major contributor to successful behavioral change, whether you’re trying to change your own behavior, or your team’s. When either asking for or providing feedback, structure can make the process a positive encounter for both parties.

I had a simple off-the-shelf structure for Robert that had worked with clients many times before. It took the form of six basic questions he would discuss during a bimonthly (every other month) one-on-one meeting with each of his nine direct reports. The agenda for each meeting was a sheet of paper with the six following questions:

  1. Where are we going?
  2. Where are you going?
  3. What is going well?
  4. Where can we improve?
  5. How can I help you?
  6. How can you help me?

Where are we going? This question tackled the big-picture priorities at the company. It forced Robert to articulate what he wanted for the company and what he was expecting from the executive. Answering this question, Robert described a vision that could be discussed openly, not merely guessed at. The back-and-forth dialogue was a first step in changing both the environment and Robert’s reputation.

Where are you going? Robert then shifted to his view of where each executive should be going. Then he turned the table and asked each person to answer the same question, thus aligning their behavior and mindset with his. In short order, they were replicating Robert’s candor and honesty about their responsibilities and goals.What is going well? Bad as he was at setting clear goals, Robert scored almost as low at providing constructive feedback. No meetings, no opportunities to praise his superstars. So the third portion of every meeting required him to openly recognize recent achievements by the executive facing him. Then he asked a question seldom asked by leaders: “What do you think that you and your part of the organization are doing well?” This wasn’t just a compulsory upbeat moment in a meeting. It helped Robert learn about good news that he may otherwise have missed.

Where can we improve? This forced Robert to give his direct reports constructive suggestions for the future — something he’d rarely done and that his people didn’t expect from him. Then he added a challenge: “If you were your own coach, what would you suggest for yourself?” The ideas he heard amazed him, largely because they were often better than his suggestions. He was okay with that. He was not only shaping the world around him, he was learning from it.

How can I help? This is the most welcome phrase in any leader’s repertoire. We can never say it enough, whether we’re in the role of a parent or friend — or a busy CEO running a meeting. It has a reciprocal power few of us take advantage of. When we offer our help, we are nudging people to admit they need help. We are adding needed value, not interfering or imposing. That’s what Robert was going for: building alignment between everyone’s interests.

How can I become a more effective leader? Asking for help means exposing our weaknesses and vulnerabilities — not an easy thing to do. Robert wanted to be a role model CEO. By asking for ongoing help and focusing on his own improvement, he was encouraging everyone to do the same.

The improvements at Robert’s company didn’t happen overnight. But they never would have happened without some sort of structure. This simple list of questions played to Robert’s strength. He had always been a great communicator with customers. Now he was deploying the same skill with employees.

In hindsight, the structure’s biggest impact may have been to slow Robert down. Instead of always being on the go, he had to carve out serious time in his calendar for nine one-on-one meetings every two months.

Another key element in Robert’s process was not just what he did every other month, but what each of his directs reports did in between the bi-monthly sessions. Robert involved his team in his own transformation toward becoming a better leader. Robert gave each team member carte blanche to call him on any leadership failing, to take personal responsibility for immediately contacting Robert if he or she felt confusion or ambiguity on direction, coaching, or feedback. Robert changed himself and his environment. Robert added structure. The team assumed responsibility. The combination produced amazing results.

When Robert retired four years later, his final 360-degree feedback report put him in the 98th percentile on “Provides clear goals and direction.” What most amazed Robert was all the time he saved. He summed up: “I spent less time with my people when I was rated a 98 than I did when I was rated an 8. In the beginning, my team couldn’t tell the difference between social chitchat and goal clarity. By involving them in a simple structure, I could give them what they needed from me in a way that respected their time and mine.”

That’s an added value of matching structure with our desire to change. Structure not only increases our chance of success, it makes us more efficient at it.

Source:

http://www.ceo.com/flink/?lnk=https%3A%2F%2Fhbr.org%2F2015%2F08%2Fa-6-part-structure-for-giving-clear-and-actionable-feedback&id=329355

Author by Marshall Goldsmith, 7 August 2015

Access on 10 August 2015

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